Thursday, December 3, 2009

The Ted Celebration




Ted Spottswood was truly a memorable man. He affected so many people. Help our family celebrate his life by telling stories about him of how you will remember him. We want any story you have about the Ted - they can be happy, sad, inspiring, or silly. If you really can't think of any specific story, feel free to leave your thoughts here.

We will all miss him but help us remember him. Please click on comment below to leave your story about the Ted. If you have trouble leaving a comment, email your story to tedcelebration@gmail.com and we'll post them.

64 comments:

Andrew Spottswood said...

Dad lead me to Christ with the sinners prayer on the back porch of our house off Poplar Estates in Memphis when I was 7. He had been praying for me since before I was born and ever since. I know he has because he would tell me he was and I saw him consistently do it. He has been my spiritual leader and biggest spiritual encouragement in my life. I have been through many ups and downs since I was 7 but he has consistently and gentlly guided me to trust in nothing but the Truth of Jesus Christ. My testimony and faith is because of my dad. His life reflected his faith. Few people are truly remembered that way.

Andrew Spottswood said...

The best memories I have of the Ted is how uninhibited he was. He might as well have created the concept "Ok, not Ok" meaning he could make anyone feel comfortable (or "Ok") with him instantly which meant he was "not Ok". Being his son it's funny looking back at how he did this to help build confidence in myself growing up. I remember him acting amazed at a project I did for a class in middle school and going on and on of how good I did, how smart I am and how much he learned from it. He had me convinced I was so much smarter than him (part of that may have been me being a teenager too!). He would go above and beyond to be sure i felt smart and special. Later on, I remember at a church youth camp my junior year of high school Laura Lauter commented to me about how wise my dad is and spiritually mature he is as he helped her work through some things. I laughed out loud at her and said "Wise?!? Yeah right!" Sorry Pop, but you had me fooled! I have learned as I moved into adulthood how truly wise and incredibly smart he was. I smile thinking about how he just last week acted amazed at how we are handling our move and went on and on with how we are handling everything. He exhibited humility the way Christ commanded us to and was a rare example for us to witness.

Chasity Perry said...

Ted was like a second dad to me. We were neighbors on Wellington Place. I never heard Ted say a negative word about anyone or anything. He was truly an amazing man. Ted was always full of life, and ALWAYS had a big smile on his face. I am so glad that I had the chance to be close to Ted and his family. My life has truly been blessed because of it. I will remember Ted by that unforgettable laugh and his smile. I love you Ted, and thank you for making me a better person.

Anonymous said...

Thanks so much for doing this blog. I'm sure it will bring glory to God to see so many wonderful memories of a wonderful, Godly man.

Although we aren't really "related" in the traditional sense to Ted and Jane, my sister Jenny is married to Reid, which brought several opportunities for us to meet them and spend time getting to know them. From a few minutes playing on the floor with the kids at Jenny & Reid's wedding, and a few hours in the hospital waiting room at Eli's birth, we know without a doubt that Christ's spirit was with Ted in abundance. The phrase "he never meets a stranger" is perfect to describe him, and although the relation was somewhat distant, he made us feel instantly like family.

My husband James and I really enjoyed the conversation we had with him about our faith durng that time waiting for Eli's arrival and we will never forget how he exuded the love of Jesus in everything he said and did.

Our prayers are with you all as you mourn his passing from the earth to heaven, but know that he is worshiping his savior in heaven for eternity.

Unknown said...

I will never forget the first time I met Ted, I was a scared freshman that had just moved from Ar to TN. My parents were forcing me to get involved at FBCConcord and that meant going to Solid Rock(? I cant really remember the name of it then)Anyways it was in the old sanctuary at that time and I remember walking in and starting to cry because I was overwhelmed, intimidated, and just plain scared to death by how many people there were and at the moment Ted walked up to me and said your new arent you? I just smiled and cried all at the same time. He introduced me to some girls my age. Although I never got to know him on the same level many did he has had an impact on my life inevitably. To his family I am so sorry for your loss, but I cant help but think that him and Doug Sowards are in heaven having a party.

Bob Hart said...

I was so sad when I heard about Ted's passing, but then I realize it isn't our plans that matter. It is always hurtful to us when we lose a friend or loved one, but when they are close to God, like Ted is (yes IS .. he's closer now then ever). I was lucky. I got to occasionally work with Ted in business, worship God and teach young people with him and know him as a friend and Christian brother. Ted and I were able to witness to a mutual non-Christian friend together and we really appreciated each other. He live a purposeful Christian life and was a real man.

I'm saddened to know he is gone from us here, but I know we will see each other again.

Justin Koozer said...

Ted was always there to make you laugh when you had a problem. Ted was my Sunday school teacher throughout high school. The thing I loved most about him was that he didn't care about being judged for his faith in God. I remember one Sunday morning, he told us that he had built a cross and was going to walk up and down Turkey Creek with it. He was one of the most caring and loving people that I have ever met. He truly did make you feel as though you were the greatest person he had ever met. I am so thankful that I knew Ted.
Thank you Andrew for making this blog.

Lisa Gilder said...

What an awesome guy Ted was. He will always be remembered. The last time I saw Ted was at Connor and Mason's bday party on Saturday. He had so much energy and could climb and jump better than I could. We all had a great time. You could always see the love that he had for Christ, his kids, grandkids, and wife. He left a wonderful legacy behind and I know that God and Ted are rejoicing in heaven. We love you and you will always be remembered...

Jared Lucas said...

I will remember Ted not only for his Godly influence upon my life as one of my favorite Sunday School teachers and accountability group leaders, but for his energy and his enthusiasm to live every minute of his life cranked to 10. This undoubtly came from the freedom he had be given and recieved from Christ. The best memories were that of a crazy golf scramble we played at Cedar Hills or many a Sunday evening a Youth function at the Creswell's it was impromptu golf and devotion lessons w/ Teddy. I think most of all I will remember the man Ted Spottswood and the 5-6 days I spent each summer in July @ FBC Youth Camps 1995-2001

miss you Bro, see you soon!!!

Keeble said...

Ted was one of my favorite people i ever knew. I have so many memories of him that its hard to not say them all. I even remember one time making him so mad, but yet, he couldn't be mad totally. He was such a caring person, and i remember the way he used to worship when i was in the youth group, and it makes me smile to think that right now, he is going crazy worshiping with God right now. Probably crying, and smiling all at the same time. I do remember that at youth camp one year, i don't remember why but he jumped into the swimming pool to essentially take a bath. he had shampoo and everything, getting "clean" in the pool that people were later baptized in. Thats just how crazy he was. But i also remember when Reid and i roomed together at MTSU how excited he was when we were moving in, and later in that year when Reid and i would go to his parents house to wash our clothes, or rather have his mom wash our clothes. And ted would always sit down with us while we tried to do homework, well i tried... and he would just talk to us, and figure out what was going on in our lives. He helped me with a lot in my life, and will be greatly missed.. But i know that yesterday when he got called up, he had the biggest smile on his face when he got to see his Savior.

Bill Hapner said...

What a loss for the world but what a treasure for Heaven. I have worked with Ted for over 13 years in various different companies. Ted was a special man. He always had a smile on his face and always had a kind word. I will truly miss his friendship. To his family, if there is anything that I can do please feel free to let me know.

Bill Hapner
615-713-9380

Val said...

Oh my goodness, there is nothing specific to say except for Ted's enthusiasm for life now and eternal. My fondest memories are of our times in youth. Youth retreats and camps were never boring with Ted there. He would do whatever it took; putting on wigs, funny clothes, dancing, genuine interaction and definite love. The skits we used to do were always a blast. The one thing I will always carry with me from Ted was his genuine love for God and desire for all to have that joy. Many the time I saw him loving on and counseling youth with the tenderness of the Father. Ted was a loving husband and father and very proud of his family. He never met a stranger or anyone he didn't like. Joy, laughter, love, compassion, and a winning laugh and smile combined with a true man of God, what more could you ask for?! What a reunion you are having and what a reunion to come.

Mike Fisher said...

Often times when we lose someone we will hear people say, "he was a good man" or that "he was well liked by his friends and neighbors".... But, that's just not enough right now.. Ted was not "good" .. he is PHENOMENAL !Ted was not "well liked".. but rather is LOVED by his friends and neighbors ! It was impossible not to love such a gentle and caring person.
I had the distinct pleasure to live next door to this man for a few years. And not once during that time was there an occassion where I stepped out of my front door, when Ted was outside, that I did not hear an enthusiastic
" Heeey Mike !! "... and I would look up to see that child like grin spread wide across his face as he waved..
One of the greatest things Ted taught me over these past few years is that just because we may grow older... our hair may grey... and wrinkles may appear at the corners of our eyes. But, we can still approach life with a youthful enthusiasm and a joyous heart ! No matter how trivial the conversation, Ted was always so fascinated by what you had to say, his eyes always kept that sparkle of wonder that we rarely see outside of the eyes of children ! For me, Ted is always going to be the perfect example of a man who understood how you can "live life to the fullest"...
So it breaks my heart to lose a friend as genuine and rare as Ted.. but my life has been truly touched to have been given the oppotunity to share a variety of moments with such a bright and shining star.... We love you Ted.

Cory said...

Ted Spottswood was one of the most influential men in my life. He was a model of a loving, Christian father and husband. My life will forever be better because of Ted. He was a man of integrity and a mentor to me.
As I sit in my office, I see Ted's signature everyday on my ordination certificate. He sat on my ordination council and he was the only person who asked how he could be praying for me and my ministry. He was the ultimate encourager.
There are many memories that date back many years of Ted. The most recent are the Labor Day Parties at the Z's. Every year Ted would go on about how he wasn't going down the 200+ foot slip n slide. And every year about 10 minutes into it, Ted would throw his body down that hill with the rest of us.
Ted had a contageous personality. You wanted to be around him, most guys wanted to be him one day. I hope in some small way I can influence people and honor God the way that Ted Spottswood did.
I am reminded of how Paul thanked God for the Philipians "I thank my God in all my remeberance of you, always in every prayer of mine for you all making my prayer with joy because of you partnership in the gospel from the first day until now. And I am sure of this, that he who began a good woek in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ." (Philippians 1:3-6
Ted Spottswood, well done good and faithful servant!

Robby said...

I suddenly caught a glimpse of Ted jogging up to an old friend and saying, "Hey, Bob Sessoms, wait up!" Then, as he smiled that incredible smile of his, they walked on, worshipping in the Master's presence together. Love, prayer, and sorrow we share today with Jayne and the family.

Denny Brinkman said...

Where do you start. Ted Spottswood was like none other. He was so full of life he is the only adult I have ever worked with that I would jokingly ask if he had taken his Ridilan that day.

We had so much fun on Mission Trips, Camps and Retreats. Ted loved being with teenagers. He loved encouraging them with things that would enhance thier lives not only for that moment but with wisdom they could look back on later in life. He always had the softest voice when he would speak encouragement in your life with the faith that Jesus was there and would guide you if you would let him.

He was a great competitor. He had the oddest Golf stroke that he mastered to perfection. I don't know if Andrew ever beat him I know I sure wasn't in his league. Tennis was a different story where I would always stand amazed at his hand eye coordination as stuff came back that you thought would never be returned.

But most of al Ted was just fun. Fun to laugh with, talk with, and play with. Fun to grow in Christ with, as we would set in awe of the things we saw Christ doing around us. Fun to watch his love for Jesus affect my life as well as others.

You will be missed. Can't wait to get to heaven and a having some fun with Ted.

Anonymous said...

I met Ted's daughter-in-law, Kat, my first year in college and I remember having a conversation with a mutual friend about how unique of girl Kat is and how special of a guy Kat's husband would be some day. After living with Kat for the rest of college, my appreciation for her only grew, and when she called me to tell me about her and Andrew getting back together, it was if two lost puzzles pieces finally made there way back together. And then I got to meet Andrew's parents at Kat and Andrew's wedding--I needed no further explanation of where the guy came from was special enough to marry my friend Kat--he came from Ted Spottswood!
Just before I head the sad news of Ted's passing, I was recalling a funny memory I have of Ted during Kat and Andrew's wedding. We were about to get on the party bus to go from the rehearsal to the rehearsal dinner and Ted was giddy to say the least over the union of Kat and Andrew. He was having trouble expressing to Kat's parents how happy he was for her to become his daughter in law, and then he just blurted out, "I am so glad you birthed that girl." It's a memory that jumps into my head on a regular basis and it will continue to do so.

It was only on one other occasion that I spent time with Ted, but both times I was quick to realize that for me to be around Ted was to be around a kindred spirit--I felt a little less crazy and a little more appreciated and needed, because Ted was such a good example of why the world needs people who can be just as silly as they can be serious.

My heart both aches for the loss and rejoices in the rest and joy that this Christmas season brings for Ted and his family.

Charlotte Brown

Lyndsey said...

I did not now Ted very closely but over the years I would run into him while Katie and I were in college and it was very obvious that he had a strong love for the Lord and others. Pure sunshine in a matter of speaking...NEVER without a smile or something friendly and encouraging to say. I am happy to have known him even a little and know his life will have a lasting impact on everyone who knew him.

Unknown said...

I only had a few brief interactions with Ted. I would see him at Highpoint Church when he was visiting Andrew in Memphis, and I saw him when we went to visit Andrew and Kat in the hospital when Griffin was born. It was obvious that he was a man of the Lord. If I had missed that when I met him, it is obvious through his son, Andrew.

Ted was always so sweet and eager to know more about me and my family. Whenever I think of him, I think of his smile. He had an amazing smile. I am sure it is even bigger now that he is with his Savior.

Andrew, you are a living testament of your dad. I know you will not let him down. You too are an incredible person who seeks after the heart of God. It is something your father instilled in you and that is something you will pass along to Griffin (and all of your future children). What a wonderful legacy!!

Lee Lockwood said...

Godly. Selfless. Genuine. Kind. Funny. A man of integrity. These are just a few of the words that envelop my mind when I think of a great man like Ted Spottswood. There is no possible way I can pen into words the great amount of gratitude I have for this one man. One of the best memories I have of Ted is at a middle school retreat Ted willingly and excitedly volunteering to lead a middle school accountability group for us boys. Ted stuck with us for years, imparting wisdom that could reach a middle schooler (especially using lots of good, animated stories in a way only Ted could tell them). Some of the best memories I have of the group are still in the corner of the Farragut McDonald's where we would meet really early some Monday mornings! It was just a few years ago I was sitting on the porch with my mom and began to tell her that there are few men who have had such a great spiritual impact on my life as Ted Spottswood. I, alone with countless others, can say that a part of who I am today is because of Ted. His life, his love for his Lord and others, the way he exemplified Christ---these things will not soon disappear, and that's because Ted truly understood what it means to store up treasures in heaven, and keep his sight on the eternal instead of the temporal things of life. Thankfully I had a chance to tell Ted after that conversation on my porch what an impact he has had on my life here on this earth. I cannot even imagine what Ted is experiencing now. His faith is now sight.

Sharon Carlson said...

I've never met anyone like Ted, and I'll always remember him, most specifically the rare and precious quality he had of making the people he spent time with feel known, affirmed and accepted. Ted completely engaged with people, wholly in tune to their problems and concerns, wholly participating in their joys. He offered smiles, hugs, stories, and prayers with a kind of openness and authenticity that made all who knew him trust and respect him. Ted championed the best in people, making each of us want to offer our best to the world. His sensitivity, compassion, and strength will be part of the legacy that those of us who loved him will aspire to continue.

Wendy Lampley said...

What could I say about Ted that everyone hasn't said or that they don't already know? I can say the man sure could run a jackhammer. I know Ted always had a beam of sunshine coming from his smile, He loved his wife dearly and many times he would ask me why do you think she keeps me around and I told him one day when we were loading some stuff to go to the new house that he better watch his p's and q's because Jane had an option now that the other house hadn't sold. I know he loved his children and was so proud of each and every one of them. He couldn't wait for the grandkids to grow so he could see his children become as proud as he was. I really think it was so he could have more options for golf and tennis. The mans crown is filled with jewels. He was a very happy man and and the ones he has left behind are a direct reflection of that. Our lives will not be the same without Ted, We loved him and he made us all feel loved. Thank you so much for sharing your Dad, Grandfather, and loving Husband with us. He will never be forgotten.

Billie Sue Dilworth said...

It is hard to put into words the "specialness" of Ted. His tireless work with youth stands out as one of the most exceptional characteristics he always showed. Ted probably did not have any idea how special he was to so many people, both the young ones and their parents and families. I was talking to Erin last night about Ted and reminded her that she would come home all the time from youth events and tell me how much she loved Ted Spottswood. Truthfully Erin did not like very many people at that stage in her life, so it was special that he gave her that feeling of genuine Christian love. Thank you Ted for all you gave to us.

Peggy and Mark said...

A scripture comes to mind when I reflect back on the blessing of teaching youth with Ted: "Don't be selfish; don't live to make a good impression on others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourself. Don't think about only your own affairs, but be interested in others, too and what they are doing. Your attitude should be the same that Christ Jesus had." Phil. 2:3-5 NLT He truly lived out this scripture and modeled how we should all love others. He loved and cared about every young person we had the privilege to work with, unconditionally. Not only did he love teens, he loved people. I'm so thankful we were able to see him just a few months ago as he helped my pregnant daughter to the car with an umbrella in the pouring rain. Typical Ted. His family were so blessed to have him as were all his friends. I'm so thankful I can call him friend. He was one in a million.

Matt Woodruff said...

This will be the beginning of many posts for me. What a Father-in-law. He was the most amazing Christ follower and he was totally focused on his mission here on earth.
Our first meeting was about a month after Katie and I started dating in 1999. This meeting was a parking lot in a small town in KY for Katie and I were on a mission trip with Alpha Omega. During this trip Katie had gotten very sick and it cause Ted and Jane to drive up from Knoxville to pick her up. So here I was very nervous for I am dating an older girl and about to meet her father. Thankfully all I kept hearing from Katie was that he was by far the most easy going person I will ever meet. He will also be extremely excited to meet me. So I was either expecting judgmental overseer or happy father.
So he introduced himself by giving me a hug. And smiling ear to ear because he was finally able to meet me.
This is our beginning of one of my best friendships. Forever in Christ we live.

MIke Alley said...

I loved Ted like a brother. I cherish all the times I spend with Ted playing tennis, leading Bible studies, having lunch, talking about families and praying over each other. Ted was a friend and a mentor. The things Ted so passionately believed in his heart and shared with others, he is now experiencing first hand. I am sure Ted’s famous smile has not left his face since he stood in the presence of his Savior. I am also sure he heard Jesus say “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

Jane, Katie, Matt, Andrew, Kat, Reid and Jenny, you are all in my prayers. In the depths of the sadness, I know you rejoice for Ted and in the confidence we have that we will again see him. He was so proud of each one of you. He loved talking about you and how blessed he was. And, it was no secret to anyone how much he loved his grandchildren. May God continue to bless you.

lindsey said...

Ha, ill never forget that Ted would strike up conversations with every waiter and waitress who ever served us. And if they were any other ethnocity he would ask where they were from and immediately start speaking words of that language! One specific time was at Epcot center at Disney and we ate lunch "in Italy" and he tried to order in Italian until he realized the waiter was German! So what did he do? He finished his order in German!

Hands down the nicest man I've ever had the honor of knowing. I've missed him so much these last several years. Being around him almost everyday throughout the "shaping form" of my life and then all of the sudden not was hard. But I thought of him often. He could always make me smile and he was such a prayer warrior. At camp he was always the first one with a hug and a prayer...he had a sense of knowing what you needed to hear...and he was so genuine.

Ha, when Andrew and I started "talking" I knew there was no way my dad was ever going to let me go to prom at 15...especially with an older guy. But at the spring Retreat my dad came and it was his first one. And Ted took my dad under his wing and they formed a bond. I guess like dad code or something and Andrew was the Greatest thing since sliced bread that day forward lol. Ted not only impacted me but my whole family. He and Jane were always so welcoming and friendly. He was just so lovable and like many have said....he had the most amazingly warm and welcoming smile of anyone I've ever met to this day.

The whole spottswood family is largely responsible for the person I am today and I'm so thankful to everyone of you and love you more than you know. I wish I could have seen him again but I have so many fond memories to last me until I see him again. I love you Ted, Jane, Andrew, katie, Matt, and "weed"...you are each a big part of my heart and will always be. you are forever in my memories, thoughts, and prayers.

Wendy Lampley said...

OK I really wanted to post this earlier but just was in a laughing mood when it comes to Ted. Now its a couple of hours later and I am laughing at my thoughts and I've got to share this. A few months ago Ted and Jane was having trouble with their garage door working or not working, so after seeing Jane carry groceries in through the front door in the rain I caught up with them later that evening and ask Ted whats up with the garage door man? He said I broke it and can't fix it. So I tinkered with it and got it working for a while. This went on a time or two and I finaly found it was the breaker. I came home from work late one nite and their house was dark and everyone was tucked it for the nite and guess what the garage door was standing wide open and I wouldn't call cause I didn't want to wake them, I wouldn't go over and close it at midnite in fear he might shot me, so I kept watching half the nite and didn't sleep a wink in fear they would be robbed blind or even worse someone would get them. The next day I woke in the most scouling mood and was determined to beat Ted to death today cause he had broke the door again. As I was walking down the street to their house to blast Ted for making me worry half the nite he came out and I said so Ted whats up with the door? He smiled from ear to ear and said I forgot it and left it open last nite. I looked at him with his hat cocked a little crooked and broke out in a big laugh. I became routine that if something didn't work it's Ted fault and you just have to ask what did you do to it Ted? We developed a new tradition in our house, when we refer to a garage door now we call it THE TED. So now we say close the ted. I acutally thought I probably should do that because If I ever said it in front of Ted it might hurt his feelings. He knows now so we will forever call it the TED. One thing for sure no matter where our life takes us we will always have The Ted......

breaking free said...

To me Ted=SMILE! That's how I remember him. He was truly genuinely interested in how I was doing.
One moment in my life that Ted had a huge impact was in a sunday school lesson in college that he was teaching. He began the lesson by talking of a huge problem in his life. I was in shock that someone like Ted was going through what he was going through. I don't remember the point of the lesson that day. But God used Ted to teach me that the Christian life isn't alway a bunch of smiles, but that we as brothers and sisters in Christ need to share our struggles with one another. That day he showed me humility and bravery and encouraged me that it is more than ok to make mistakes in life. He showed me that even mistakes made are ways to grow closer to the Lord.
Praying for the family during this time

Kari said...

I love that someone said that heaven is a little more fun now that Ted is there. I believe it! My most recent memories are of Ted and the infamous slip n slide at the Zacheretti's house. Talk about young at heart! What a wonderful example of a father, grandfather, and friend! Spottswood family...your Ted has touched thousands if not millions of lives and made them all the better for it! Much love goes out to you all as you go through this time.

Reid said...

My dad was the greatest encourager in the world. Every idea I had, every ambition I had, he was always there to encourage me and remind to keep at it and that he was proud of me. One thing that I will always remember was how often he told me he was proud of me, even if I didn't deserve it. About three years ago, me and Jenny (before we were married) sat my parents down to tell them we were pregnant with our son Eli. My mom was obviously shocked and left the room, but dad looked Jenny right in the eyes, and with a big smile on his face he said that everything was going to be ok. Even when his children go against his word and his teaching, he wanted us to know he supported us and loved us.

Dad was the most selfless person I know. He always asked if he could help, and would always came right away. If I needed to put down flooring in our attic, he would go out, buy the plywood, bring over his saw, measure, cut, and nail everything down before I could even say thank you. He never expected anything in return.

I used to be jealous of how much dad would participate at church because it meant that I get less time with him myself. Looking back I see just how selfish I was, and what dad was really trying to teach me. Dad had no doubt in his mind that he was going to heaven and he wanted to bring everyone with him. It was my dad's mission in life to show Jesus to everyone he meet, even if that was to be extra kind and try to speak Mandarin to the waitress at the chinese restaurant.

Ted will always stand as my shining example of how to be a husband to my wife, a father to my children, and christian to my community. No man that I've met was as close to christlike as my father.

Thank you for being you, dad.

Jennylee said...

The first word I think of when I think of my father-in-law is selfless. He just cared so much about other people. He never failed to ask me how I was doing every time he saw me or ask me details about our daily life. He genuinely cared about other people and listened..really listened. That meant so much to me, even unimportant details of my day were important to Ted.

While Reid and I were dating during my senior year of high school, I worked at Chick-fil-A. Well one day while I was working, I was surprised to see my dad and Ted walk through the door! Ted had a big smile on his face and he had brought me flowers! I'll never forget my friends asking me later if my boyfriend had brought me those flowers, and having to tell them, "Nope, my boyfriend's dad did!" It was so funny and thoughtful. Not to mention it was fun telling Reid about it!

Another time that comes to mind when I think of him, is that he was there with me when Eli took his very first steps. We were playing with Eli at Ted & Jane's house and suddenly Eli stepped away from holding onto his toy toward me, taking about 3 steps. Ted and I were both so excited and I could just see how proud he was in his face. He kept saying how glad he was that he was there to see that. I cherish that moment so much..I'm so glad he was there with me. He was so proud of his grandkids and loved them so much. Eli just loved his Pop. I loved him too. He was one of a kind.

Kevin G. said...

Wow... What a man!! As I'm laying down trying to sleep, I just can't seem to get the Spottswood family out of my head. Harder than that is trying to come up with a FEW standout stories of the Ted. There are so many. Everything from having him covered in dish soap and a garbage bag speeding towards me at the bottom of the Z's hill to being in the Waffle House on Christmas Eve having him come towards me wanting to sit on 'Santa's lap'!!

Even though there are so many funny memories I have of Ted, I think the ones I hold onto the most are the ones of me crying on his shoulder because I just didn't know what to do. Amazingly, he had a way of having me find a way out. As an encourager he would tell me how my decisions were tough and he sure wouldn't be able to respond to those problems. He would then begin asking questions about whatever it was, and guide me without me even knowing. That was the true mark of a selfless man! He wanted me to have credit for finding the answers "on my own".

Now that I am a husband, father, and youth worker myself, I see how great he was. It's hard to balance all 3 on top of keeping your own walk strong, but he managed to do all flawlessly (And he even had time for golf, WOW!!) Enjoy your reward Ted!

Ashley Hogan Nelkin said...

Ted was one of my favorite dad's of our youth group. You could always count on him to make you laugh, but also to sit there and listen when you needed someone to talk to. He was someone that was not afraid to be himself and he was such an example of Christ each and every day. I have so many good memories of youth trips and events in which Ted was a part of. He will be greatly missed, but I do agree with Hillary. Ted and Doug Sowards are having a party up in Heaven! The entire Spottswood family is in our prayers!

Jessica McQuade said...

I remember when I was in High School, and anytime that I went over to Reid's house, Ted was always so welcoming, and he was good to all of us. He cared about each of us, and really poured himself into our lives. I remember one time at youth camp, he had done a LCU class, and I took it. Afterwards I confided that my Dad had done something that really upset me, and let me down. He told me a story of a mistake he made with one of his own children, and let me know that parents are human and they make mistakes, but my heavenly father never would. I still remember that, and I think I was in 8th or 9th grade :) I am always thankful that I have a constant in Jesus, when others around me cannot be. I thank God for putting Ted in so many people's lives. I think God knew how much we would all need him, and we are better people just for having known him. Praise God!

Tim Carroll said...

Ted and I met in 1992 just after I had joined Roane State. I took over a project to install the first videoconferencing classroom in a community college in the state of Tennnessee. We immediately became friends. We stayed in contact even after our business relationship was over. Years later we joined First Baptist Concord and we were able to renew our friendship. I met many others at FBC who knew and loved Ted... especially young people. I was saddened when he decided to move, but as a grandfather myself, fully understood why he wanted to be near his children. Ted was a great Christian friend and will truly be missed.

George Kesterson said...

Ted was one of a kind. His bright smile and bubbling personality was always contagious. He always had a kind word to say about everyone he came in contact with. You will be sorely missed and God in Heaven has his arms around you. Ephesians 2:10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them. That was Ted Spottswood. We will all miss you and look forward to seeing you soon in your new home above.

Mommy said...

Two months ago, my husband and I arrived home from China with our new daughter Molly Hope. When we came down the stairs to greet our friends and family, Ted Spottswood was at the end of the staircase with a huge smile on his face. He had come to welcome home our new little blessing. He followed our blog while we were in China, prayed for us both before and during our trip and made sure he was at the airport when we touched down in Nashville. He was so excited to see Jay (my husband) and to finally meet our family and the little girl from China that he had prayed for over the past year.

I had never had the opportunity to personally meet Ted until that night but Jay knows him well. Ted has been his Men's Fraternity group leader for the past two years. I had only heard stories of Ted. Stories of how he was "the real deal". How he loved the Lord with all his heart. Stories of his smiling face and his fun loving personality. I have witnessed the Godly influence he has had over Jay and even though I didn't know him well, I am thankful for the blessing he was to him. I am certain the legacy he leaves will live on through his family and those who were privileged to call him a friend.

Please know that you and your entire family are in our prayers.

In Him,
Misty Womble
NVBC member

Stan Duke said...

As I sat and read all of these great comments, I realized I kept saying to myself "Yep, that's Ted." I had the privilege of praying with Ted in a men's group every Monday morning for many years. We recently ended our times together, and one reason was so that Ted could begin a men's prayer group in Murfreesboro. I will let all of your wonderful comments reflect mine and simply say "you're home, Ted. I love you."

Anonymous said...

I don't remember how I met Ted, only that I really enjoyed our time together. He was always smiling and a great encourager. He shared a variety of spiritual truths with me and he was one of the people I'd seek out at church when home on breaks from college. He once told me that years ago the telecommunications industry had already planned for the day everyone in the world would have a personal (cell?) phone. They'd had a computer design a system for allowing everyone to be able to be reached individually. One of the things the computer came up with on its own was the "area code" for reaching a person (as opposed to a business, etc) was 666. Someone remarked that the Christian's would balk at such a system because of Biblical prophesy. They were told that the computer designed it and that would be the eventual system. I am reminded of Ted every time I hear about Revelation and prophesy. Though I've not seen him for years due to our physical locations, I'll greatly miss him!! --Hunter Barber

Matt Woodruff said...

Second Story.
So after a few months of dating Katie we got in the car and drove to Knoxville to truly introduce myself and spend time with them. This was the beginning of such a wonderful relationship with Ted, and our mutual focus on sports.
I was really into racquetball with the college group and my roommates. So upon finding that First Baptist Church Concord had racquetball courts I placed the challenge in Ted's lap. We were to meet that afternoon after church for a little "meeting". Yea so I rethought my strategy and said to myself "Wait... first introductions with the father of the girlfriend, yea I need to ease up and let him win." So I did, and he figured it out after 3 games. In the Ted like fashion he turned around and looked me in the eye and said this, "Now Matt you are letting me win, so from this point on I am now Steve and no longer the girlfriend's father. Now play Steve like you want to win."
Yea wrong thing to say to a college guy with that level of energy. Three points into the next game and BLAM I hit the hardest ball ever and where did it go? Right into the middle of Ted's back, he went down. Inside my head "CRAP, CRAP, CRAP I'm in Knoxville and my girlfriend drove me..."
Ted got up and said "Well you certainly think I'm Steve"
Everyone, Ted and I have since played countless numbers of racquetball, golf, and tennis games, and I miss him so very much.

Doug Carter said...

My family and I had the absolute privilege to call Ted, Jane, Matt, Katie, Connor and Mason our neighbors. I've read through several of the stories on this site and have been given a bigger picture of a man who I only knew for a few years. I knew he was a special guy, but had no idea just HOW special. The Spottswood family had a truly remarkable man to lead them through life and it shows that they all know that. Thank God, if we know Him, we have a promise that our loved ones who go on ahead of us are waiting for us in Heaven. My heart breaks for those family members who are left behind. I can see just how much Ted will be missed by his family. I joked with Ted and Jane a couple of months ago that I would take turns with other neighbors on our street and stay up during the night to find the ruthless pranksters who put a For Sale sign in their front yard. They were wonderful neighbors and I did not want to see them move. I spent 6 weeks away from home this past September and October. My wife, who was close to delivering twin boys, called me on one of those days to tell me that Ted and another great neighbor had cut our grass. I am humbled by his generosity and thoughfulness. The news of Ted's passing came to me while I was again away from home. It gives a helpless feeling to hear something like this and be hundreds of miles away. My thoughts turned to Jane and how it must feel to lose a partner like Ted. It brought a poem to mind that I've loved for years.



Should you go first and I remain,
to walk the road alone,
I'll live in memories garden,
with happy days we've known.
In spring I'll wait for roses red, when
faded, the lilacs blue.
In early fall when brown leaves fall,
I'll catch a glimpse of you.
Should you go first and I remain, for
battles to be fought,
Each thing you've touched along the
way will be a hallowed spot.
I'll hear your voice, I'll see your
smile, tho blindly I may grope,
The memory of your helping hand
will buoy me on with hope.
Should you go first and I remain,
one thing I'll have you do:
Walk slowly down that long long
path, for soon I'll follow you.
I want to know each step you take,
so I may take the same.
For someday down that lonely road,
you'll hear me call your name.

Becky Fraser said...

I worked with Ted in FBC-Concord youth department for many years. A student never came through the door that Ted did not meet. He did not care if they had purple hair or the best dressed kid. He only cared if they knew the Lord or not and he would find out. You always knew if Ted said he was going to pray for you he would do it. You could always count on him to keep you going when you didn't think you could stay up another night with the students at retreats or camps.

I went with Ted to Thailand on a mission trip to host a youth camp for mission kids. On one 15 hour plane ride of the trip Ted stayed awake the whole time sharing the lord with his seat mate. The rest of us were sleeping and thinking of oursleves and that we had to be ready to minister when we got there. But not Ted he remembered we are to share about our Lord whenever the opportunity presents. Thank you Ted for teaching me how to work with youth and for always caring and showing God in every situation. Spottswood family - I know you will miss him and I will be praying for you all. Ted's work here was done and now he is standing before our Lord and hearing well done good and faithful servant....

birdsong_kathy@yahoo.com said...

I was a telecom consultant when Ted was the most enthusiastic salesperson you would ever meet--working at ATS telphone and data systems in Memphis. He was the stereo-typical sales guy in that he never said no if there was an order to be had. His opie-ish style allowed him to over promise without huge consequences.

After I had an accident and was out of work to rehab without a job to return to, Ted showed up at my house unannounced. He wanted to check on me and pray with me that I would recoperate. As a salesperson myself, it is hard to admit that we don't normally do anything that won't bring us business. Ted knew that I was not in any position to give him business but that was not why he was there. He was there as a human being that cared about another human being. We prayed and kept in touch as he left Memphis and went on to other ventures. When son Andrew came to Memphis to work, we spoke several times. He was VERY proud of Andrew, as he was of his extended family.
He had a knack of loving life, making a difference in the life of everyone he met and always being the best Christian he could be. He will be missed, but I am sure that he was welcomed in heaven by all of those whose lives he had touched here on earth.
My prayers are with the family. In Ted's honor, for the next week, I will be passing out hot coffee and hamburgers to the homeless who hold signs that they are hungry.

Jicey Greene said...

The world will never be the same without Ted. But it will never be the same BECAUSE of Ted. He impacted multitudes by his Godly example, including my family. Ted was truly a Godly man. What a legacy he leaves!

Philippians 1:3 "I thank God every time I remember you."

To the entire Spottswood family, my thoughts and prayers go with you.

chasity perry said...

I said to myself, that I would leave only one post. However, I have not been able to get Ted, Jane, Katie, Matt, Andrew, Kat, Reid, Jenny, and the 4 boys of my mind. Ted and Jane welcomed Wendy and I into their family with open arms. We were more than just neighbors, we were great friends and had become like family. I sit here and think about Ted, and how he always say "Ah, Chasity", no matter what I was talking about rather it be work or anything else he would always listen, with that huge smile. One day right before they moved, they had went on a bike ride, and about 20 minutes later, the winds picked up and the clouds were dark, so Wendy and I said "We have to go find our friends", we found them and they were just pedaling away towards the house. We just had to make sure they were ok. I sit here and I feel like I lost a family member. It never mattered what time of the day it was, Ted would either stop in front of our house, turn is car off, and get out, or wave with that huge smile, and then when he made to his driveway, he would get out and yell 2 houses up and say "Hey Chas how you doing?" I will miss that. When Ted and Jane said they were moving, he said "you guys come over anytime and see us", well Jane you are stuck with us now. Wow, how he loved Jane, his 3 kids, their spouses, and those 4 boys. He worshiped every one of you all. We are so grateful and fortunate of the times that we shared with Ted Spottswood; he was truly one in a million. Ted will always be remembered by Me, Wendy, my nephew Little Bryson (He Loved Hugging Ted), and my mom and dad.

Brad Carpenter said...

Ted was everything that a human being should strive to be; recklessly kind, dangerously silly, and most importantly, Ted was a bold, unabashed warrior for Jesus Christ. I loved him, and he went out of his way to make me feel loved- I miss him terribly, but rejoice in his life and in his character.

Chase Smith said...

Oh Gracious,
Where to start. Much like everybody else theres just too many Ted memories to count let alone pick out just a couple to post. That's just the man he was. If you had the pleasure of knowing Ted then you had the gift of being loved unabashedly by a man who understood what it meant to be a christian, what it meant to be a real man. Growing up in First Baptist Concord me and my friends were so anxious to make it into the youth group as wee 5th graders because of how exciting everything was supposed to be. None of us knew the journey we were all about to go on and the man we would meet who left such an indelible mark on our lives. 6th grade started and who was my sunday school teacher? none other than the Ted. Smiling like he knew something I didn't. He had that loving smile that had the goofiest little smirk like he was about to get into mischief. Over the next 12 years I had the best role model in the world. He and Doug Sowards were our accountability group leaders in middle school where anything and everything was ok to discuss. I'll never forget at the beginning of group one day saying Hey Ted.... is it ok to date Jewish girls? ... he just busted up laughing as did the whole group and then proceeded to lead me into the awnsers i already knew. Just so it would mean more to me than if he just blurted out the awnsers. He was there during High-school to help me with my faith and show me what it meant to be a great godly man. My dad hadn't accepted the lord yet at this point so we was kinda that spiritual surrogate father that God placed in my life cuz he knew I needed him. He knew everyone of my sisters 3 middle names and would recite them every time he saw her. He just flat out loved and invested himself into everyone he knew. I remember crying into the phone during college talking to him when a girl i dated for 4 years and I separated. He used that sweet spirit to calm me down and pray for me and always told me no matter what God had a plan for me in ways I can't see right now. Several long months later he called me up to check on me and ask if I might pray for Reid cuz he was going through the same thing that I had been going through and I told him about the girl I was with ( and still am). And you could just hear the joy in his voice that I had found a Godly woman that god had planned for me. He told me he expected an invitation to the wedding to which I replied that it wasn't even a question and I'd be hurt if he wasn't there. God called him home before he had a chance to come to my wedding but I know he is somewhere smiling that Ted smile up at God praising him and Dancing like nobody else can, without a care in the world. Somebody once told me that the measure of a man should not be based solely off what he did while he was alive but the hole that's left after he is gone. If thats the case, then Ted Spottswood is probably the greatest man I have ever known. He loved me like a son and I can only strive to be just a fraction of the man he was.

hannah thomas said...

“Memories”

“Dedicated to Ted”

The smile upon your face
Made me smile too
The languages you spoke
Gave me the encouragement I needed to get through mine
The love you had for everything and everyone
Made me want to be like you

You may be with God today
But the ones you left behind
Will never forget that smile upon your face

This is my memory of you!

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Unknown said...

Ted was my brother, my younger brother by seven years. I was the middle child. Our parents were so very happy when Teddy was born! Ted had three mothers - poor guy, but he sure turned out well in spite of that! He had such a great laugh that we tickled him so much when he was little that he stuttered! Had to go to speech therapy to get rid of it.
I remember that I was so happy when he turned five and was able to play golf with dad, so I wouldn't have to. He picked up golf quickly. He played with dad's clubs, but wanted his own so much. He had to beat dad three times before he could get his own clubs. I don't remember how old he was when he won that 3rd time, but it was probably around 10 or 11 years old.
My favorite golf story of Ted: He was 13 years old with a broken led in a cast and playing in a tournament. I was waiting for him to finish to take him home. A man came into the grill where I was waiting, threw his clubs on the floor, put one over his leg and broke it saying, "I just got beat by a 13-year old cripple." Ted had won! Ted when to MTSU on a golf scholarship where he met Jane at a United Methodist Wesley Foundation event.
At the memorial service yesterday, we were reminded of the religious tract that played such a large role in his faith journey. The uncle who gave him that tract was a United Methodist missionary who served in the Philippines along with his wife and five sons for 30 years. That same uncle baptized him in our home in Mobile when Ted was around 10. I remember Ted stopped Uncle Curran in the middle of the service to ask him a question. So, we all stood around until Ted and Uncle Curran finished their religious discussion. I believe that tract took hold of him as it did because of the many years of religious education, faith discussions, church attendance, etc. that he grew up with under the guidance of our parents and extended family. And his interest in mission work was strongly influenced by the life and mission work of our Uncle Curran and Aunt Miriam Spottswood.
There is so much more I could tell you about Ted. Maybe I'll get to that soon.
I will miss Ted greatly. We talked on the phone and via email often. I will miss being able to pick up the phone and hear his voice. I know he is with our parents now, looking out for us all.

Katie said...

I can't remember a time when Ted wasn't smiling. When I first started attending the youth group at First Baptist Concord, I was insecure and nervous. I didn't know anyone. Ted approached me and introduced himself. He made me feel so welcome. After that, he always made a point to talk to me. He was always so upbeat and such a great spiritual role model. He is one of my favorite memories of attending youth group.

Megan said...

My Freshman year of High School our family had just moved to Knoxville and began attending FBC. Little did I know what I would learn there and that I would carry these treasures throughout the next four plus years - The lessons learned were things I already knew in my head, as I had grown up in the church and hardly missed a Sunday. Yet, I had not yet learned to translate them into a fresh faith and passion, a true dependence on God. Something in me came alive as I was surrounded by youth leaders that I could sense really cared about my life. One of those leaders and teachers was Ted. Like many of you have said already, he was always smiling. He had a peace about him. And joy. Such joy. My Freshman year of college took me out West, to Oklahoma. I did not have a car that first year and sadly I did not attend church regularly. Due to this, I started falling away especially Sophomore year. I could not see anything clearly - nothing past my selfishness. Looking back I remember reflecting on those lessons learned from Ted in Sunday School - I remember one Sunday he gave an illustration of putting God first and everything else will fall into place. He had a jar with small marbles or something similar, representing all the things we try to crowd into our lives (buying nice clothes, having a boyfriend, studying for school, etc.) and a golf ball/large object representing God. He tried putting all the marbles in the jar first, then the golf ball, then tried closing the jar. It did not work. He poured out the jar and started over, putting "God" in first, then the marbles easily fell around the larger object. Everything else had fallen into place. I will always remember him comedically illustrating that essential point. I would go as far to say that Ted is one of the reasons I am where I am today - along with the other youth leaders at FBC. It was just something about his unconditional love... He knew I had fallen, and he was a wise counsel to those I had hurt during that time in my life. Although I did not hear his midnight conversations with those hurting, I know these conversations took place and made a huge impact. I know Ted prayed for me during that time and I am so thankful to be back walking with the Lord again because of my wonderful teacher.

I don't know if I read it in Scripture or just heard someone say... We should be imitators of the faithful who have taught us in godly ways.

Nannie said...

Maybe this will help me with my grief, although I know he is in the loving arms of Jesus.
When he came to our kitchen table to talk about his desire to marry Jane, he was about 20yrs.old, and after asking them to wait longer and seeing we were,making no headway, Eddie asked Ted how he planned to take care of her. Well, he said I was an exchange student in Germany and they said I would be promised a job over there. At this point I had to leave the room.

My time memory is a little fuzzy, but they did marry and move to Al. so Ted could finish at Auburn Univ. Jane got a job in a bank and after school Ted worked at a McDonalds till closing.
Jane said he would come home,crawl in bed smelling like french fries!

Shortly after marriage, Kenny drove from Atlanta for a visit. They went some where in Ted's car
and he pulled in a gas station. After filling up he forgot to disconnect the hose. Soon the blue lights of a police car pulled up. He was totally innocent of his mistake. The newly wed love for Jane had overwhelmed him. Love can do crazy things like that!!

My most memorable memories of Ted were his love for me. I always received a hug and kiss on
his coming and going. When time permitted he would come and crawl around fixing the DVD,,
VCR or calling the Help Line for the computer. I loved him as a son and will miss that smile
and optimistic outlook.
Nannie

Bill Bayless said...

Ted was a great friend to me when I was commuting to Nashville. He made it a point to get in touch with me and even invite me to stay with him at his hotel rather than stay by myself elsewhere. Ted made my situation a little easier to bear when I was away from home, and Maleah and I will never forget his concern and hospitality. Ted's devotion to his Savior was always on display.

Bill Bayless

Ben Smith Family said...

Ted was such a dear friend to our family. He and Jane both were so kind to us. I met Ted in our men's prayer group and we became fast friends. When he would stop in to visit or help us on some of our projects (we were building a house,)it was always such a joy to have him around. We would have such wonderful talks about the Saviour. Ted loved the Lord.

Even though we moved away, it was not strange for the topic of Ted to come up a couple times a week. The children loved him (as well and Darlene and I.) He was a gentle, kind, soul. He will be deeply missed by us. When my coworker, Stan, told me about Ted's graduation to glory, I sat down and this poem just flowed out in about two minutes. I hope it captures our feeling about our dear brother.

Missing a friend, yet rejoicing,
Ben Smith

Ted

It’s not like we saw each other much,
Or oft tied up the telephone line;
In some ways we were worlds apart,
And yet you held a place in our heart.

Just the mention of your name,
Or something silly that you said,
Made us all just laugh and smile,
And say, “I wish we could go see Ted.”

And every now then we’d go,
Do business over by your place,
And go by just by chance we might,
See your dear and precious face.

But now you’ve kept and appointment dear,
And answered a call from another land.
For now, you’ve left us to ourselves,
To walk with Christ and hold his hand.

Good bye, sweet friend, we’ll miss you so.
Your memory still brings thoughts so dear.
We’ll have to bid you fond, Adieu,
Till the day we too, our call will hear.

Written in memory of Ted Spotswood

By Ben Smith

George Spottswood said...

When I think of Ted … I think of JOY.

One of many Ted stories…
I’ll never forget my suppers with Ted and Jane at their 1 BR Student Housing apartment on the Auburn Campus back in the late 70’s.

Katie had just been born.
Jane was just starting in her motherly role… which she has always excelled in (!) … & working at a bank when she could.
Ted was taking a full load of courses (20 hrs?) at school & studying when he could… up until he started his nightly graveyard shift at UPS and… spending every free minute with Jane and Katie!
I know that neither could have been averaging more than 3-4 hours sleep a night…max!
All this PLUS …they were the most Joyful people I knew on campus…WOW!

And yep – despite my full knowledge of their situation- I selfishly answered every call to eat with ‘em and thoroughly enjoyed every feast – thanks Jane!

Ted’s deep faith, his extreme love for his family and his love of others… allowed him to reflect Gods joy in deeper ways than I can comprehend.
Ted ALWAYS radiated Joy in the fullest sense and … I’ve never saw it broken.
Ted’s constant Joyful faith-life has apparently inspired many and I’m enjoying reading these “Ted Celebration” posts (my favorite are Katie’s posts).
Ted was … a BLAST to be around!.

Kat said...

I just don't even know how to sum up Ted. He was by far the best father-in-law anyone could imagine. I never saw him upset. Every single memory I have of him, he has a huge smile on his face.

I also can't remember one time that we were together that he didn't genuinely ask how my family was doing and really want to hear the answer.

I could always count on him to brew up some coffee when I was at the house because we were the only coffee junkies in the fam.

I will add some funny stories later but I will never forget that the weekend of this past Thanksgiving we rolled up to Murfreesboro and Griffin flew into Pop's arms. He loved him and it was just so fun to see them playing together.

I just hope he grows up knowing how awesome his Pop is. We always said Griffin is a lot like Pop and we can only hope that is true!

We all met up at a mall last Sunday after Thanksgiving and Ted gathered us around before the Woodruffs headed to Chicago, I headed to Memphis, Andrew headed to Seattle, and everyone else went home. We all stood in a bunch in the food court of the mall and he prayed for each of us before we split up.

I will miss him and I hate that he is not here with us but I am so thankful to have known him for as long as I did and it is so incredible to see how many lives he touched with his gentle and hilarious spirit.

George Spottswood said...

Dear Ted Spottswood family… our heart aches for you.
Please know you are very much in our prayers.

When I think of Ted … I think of JOY.

One of many Ted stories…
I’ll never forget my suppers with Ted and Jane at their 1 BR Student Housing apartment on the Auburn Campus back in the late 70’s.
Katie had just been born.
Jane was just starting in her motherly role… which she has always excelled in (!) … & working at a bank when she could.

Ted was taking a full load of courses (20 hrs?) at school & studying when he could… up until his nightly graveyard shift at UPS and… spending every free (however few) minute with Jane and Katie!

I know that neither could have been averaging more than 3-4 hours sleep a night…max!

All this PLUS …they were the most Joyful people I knew on campus…WOW!
And yep – despite my full knowledge of their situation- I selfishly answered every call to eat with ‘em and thoroughly enjoyed every feast – thanks Jane-great vittles!
Ted’s deep faith, his extreme love for his family and of others… allowed him to reflect Gods joy in deeper ways than I can comprehend.

Ted ALWAYS radiated Joy in the fullest sense and … I’ve never saw it broken.

Ted’s constant Joyful faith-life has apparently inspired many and I’m enjoying reading these “Ted Celebration” posts (my favorite are Katie’s posts).

Ted was … a BLAST to be around!.
Jane, Katie, Andrew and Reid I’m sorry we weren’t able to make it up for service; however… do know our prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Got lots more "young Ted" stories when you've got the time.

Blessings,
George Spottswood

Danny Creswell said...

I was once taught that men are lucky if they have 2 close friends because most only have one if any. Ted was one of those strange men who had dozens of men who felt they were one of his best friends.
He mastered the gift of making you feel special.
I was listening to Andrew talk about how Ted wasn't a "things" person and I laughed inside at the thought of how the conversation went once when Ted was buying a car from me. He asked what I had and I told him about a car I thought he would like. He said he would take it. I offered to let him drive it a few days to be sure he would like it and he just said he was sure he would. I asked him didn't he want to see it before he bought it and he reluctantly agreed to see it before he gave me the check.
Ted had his priorities right. I'm proud to say I am one of those men who saw Ted as a close friend. Danny Creswell

Anonymous said...

Ted was a great husband, dad, father-in-law, grandpa, son, brother and son-in-law.

He was also a friend, leader, mentor, teacher, supporter and follower of Christ.

He was also funny, honest, truthful, caring, athletic, worldly, intelligent, a listener, compassionate and inquisitive.

He always had a smile, kind word, smile, helping hand, smile, goofy thought, smile and funny story to tell (usually about himself).

I was lucky enough to be related to the Ted through my daughter, Kat, being married to Andrew. He loved her as much as any non birth father could. The way I would see him smile at her, help her and care for her was astounding. This was perhaps my best memory about him.

I will miss him, my family will miss him, my daughter, son-in-law and grandson will miss him. I promise to not let Griffin ever forget what a great Pop he had.

Phil Zacheretti

jbanderson said...

I have been thinking about Ted and what a fun, godly, and loving man that he was. I had the honor of being Katie's friend and roommate throught out college. I remember the first time that Katie told me that her dad was coming into town on business. She said he would be by that evening. I never expected that it would be such a fun visit for me too.

Ted came in and gave me a big hug and then pulled out two different half gallons of ice cream. He didn't just bring ice cream though. He sat with us and we would just talk and visit and he actually cared about me and what was going on in my life (and, of course, Katie's too!!) From that first visit forward, when Katie told me that Ted was coming, I made sure to be there too!! :)

Every time I think of Ted, it puts a big smile on my face!!! I am so thankful that the Lord put him in my life.

David W Weill III said...

I laughed when I read someone's comment that Ted sometimes was not good w/ DETAILS. It reminded me of some of the some small group meetings we had at Embassy Suites. I confess that there was at least one occasion where i was somewhat frustrated with Ted after a meeting. It was time to go and we hadn't even gotten to question number one! (even though i was a tad frustrated about not getting to the very important questions- everyone including myself left encouraged and prayed for). I learned from Ted that I can be to focused on DETAILS and its more important to be concerned about PEOPLE. Miss you Ted! Thanks for being a great example as a small group leader!

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We worked with Ted on a project, I tried to get in touch every few months. Was a bit strange when I tried to get in touch a few weeks ago when in Nashville. No email response; not normal for Ted. Tried calling the phone numbers today, one disconnected, other a new person. Am deeply saddened to have searched on his name on Google and seen an obituary, and then stumble across the blog. Needless to say, it's hard seeing the picture of him and remembering having lunch just back in September. Best wishes for eternity Ted, I'm sure many others out there are wondering where you're at, missing the quirkiness of your laugh, hearing about your experiences travelling abroad, closeness you had with your family, etc. etc.. -JasonG